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Over the past 7 months, C.J. Mahaney has used his blog to periodically interview pastors and leaders to try and gain insights from 17 different men. Some of these men are “superstars” in the evangelical community (John Piper, Wayne Grudem, etc.) while other are what C.J. refers to as “ordinary pastors.”

I’ve gained a lot of insight into how to live a godly life by following much of this series, and now it’s easier to find things since they’ve indexed the series. Now, you can find all the interviews C.J. has done on a single page.

As an example – From his interview with John Piper:

C.J.: What single bit of counsel has made the most significant difference in your effective use of time?

Piper: A great tree will fall with many small chops. Pray for daily grace to keep chopping.

C.J. Mahaney had another great post in his Biblical Productivity Series at his blog. This was focused on serving and surprising people. He used the example of his role with his wife. I found this post very helpful and convicting.


Study Your Wife

For example, let’s look at my role as husband to Carolyn. As I plan how to serve and surprise my wife, I think about a number of categories. Here are my two lists. You can probably add to them.

Do you know how to surprise and delight your wife in specific ways in each of these areas?

  • clothing sizes, styles, and stores
  • jewelry
  • health
  • exercise
  • books and magazines
  • movies
  • the arts
  • sports
  • food
  • music
  • entertainment
  • places to visit
  • intellectual interests
  • hobbies
  • vacations/getaways
  • and, of course, sex

Do you know how your wife is faring in each of these areas?

  • theological knowledge
  • practice of the spiritual disciplines
  • growth in godliness
  • spiritual gifts that can be used to serve others
  • involvement in the local church
  • relationships with children
  • relationships with parents
  • relationships with in-laws
  • relationships with friends
  • personal retreats
  • fears
  • hopes
  • dreams
  • disappointments
  • temptations

Once I have considered these categories, I can put specific ways to serve and surprise my wife on my weekly and monthly schedule.

C.J. Mahaney had another great post in his Biblical Productivity Series at his blog. This was focused on serving and surprising people. He used the example of his role with his wife. I found this post very helpful and convicting.


Study Your Wife

For example, let’s look at my role as husband to Carolyn. As I plan how to serve and surprise my wife, I think about a number of categories. Here are my two lists. You can probably add to them.

Do you know how to surprise and delight your wife in specific ways in each of these areas?

  • clothing sizes, styles, and stores
  • jewelry
  • health
  • exercise
  • books and magazines
  • movies
  • the arts
  • sports
  • food
  • music
  • entertainment
  • places to visit
  • intellectual interests
  • hobbies
  • vacations/getaways
  • and, of course, sex

Do you know how your wife is faring in each of these areas?

  • theological knowledge
  • practice of the spiritual disciplines
  • growth in godliness
  • spiritual gifts that can be used to serve others
  • involvement in the local church
  • relationships with children
  • relationships with parents
  • relationships with in-laws
  • relationships with friends
  • personal retreats
  • fears
  • hopes
  • dreams
  • disappointments
  • temptations

Once I have considered these categories, I can put specific ways to serve and surprise my wife on my weekly and monthly schedule.

On his blog, C.J. Mahaney has been “introducing” several prominent pastors/theologians. He’s already done Wayne Grudem and Mark Dever. Today, he posted a short Q&A with John Piper. Piper’s answer are pretty short, but I found some of them very interesting.

Here are a few examples:


Please describe your morning devotions. What time do you wake up in the morning? How much time do you spend reading, meditating, praying, etc.? What are you presently reading?

I get up two mornings at 5:15, four mornings at 6:15 and one morning at 6:00.

I set aside one hour for prayer and Bible reading using the Discipleship Journal read through the Bible reading plan. That puts me now (February 2009) in Exodus, Psalms, Matthew, and Acts. On the five free days when there are no assignments I focus on memorization.


If you could study under any theologian in church history (excluding those men in Scripture), who would it be and why?

Jonathan Edwards because he saw the grandeur of God and experienced a great awakening and ran a happy family.


What single bit of counsel has made the most significant difference in your effective use of time?

A great tree will fall with many small chops. Pray for daily grace to keep chopping. [I LOVE that analogy.]


What single bit of counsel has made the most significant difference in your leadership?

Lead by helping people see the same truth in the Bible you do so that commonly perceived truth is the fabric that binds together. When truth is not the bond, power moves are inevitable.

Also, while I’m talking a little about C.J. Mahaney, wanted to share this video someone did from clips of a sermon of his. Very powerful.

On his blog, C.J. Mahaney has been “introducing” several prominent pastors/theologians. He’s already done Wayne Grudem and Mark Dever. Today, he posted a short Q&A with John Piper. Piper’s answer are pretty short, but I found some of them very interesting.

Here are a few examples:


Please describe your morning devotions. What time do you wake up in the morning? How much time do you spend reading, meditating, praying, etc.? What are you presently reading?

I get up two mornings at 5:15, four mornings at 6:15 and one morning at 6:00.

I set aside one hour for prayer and Bible reading using the Discipleship Journal read through the Bible reading plan. That puts me now (February 2009) in Exodus, Psalms, Matthew, and Acts. On the five free days when there are no assignments I focus on memorization.


If you could study under any theologian in church history (excluding those men in Scripture), who would it be and why?

Jonathan Edwards because he saw the grandeur of God and experienced a great awakening and ran a happy family.


What single bit of counsel has made the most significant difference in your effective use of time?

A great tree will fall with many small chops. Pray for daily grace to keep chopping. [I LOVE that analogy.]


What single bit of counsel has made the most significant difference in your leadership?

Lead by helping people see the same truth in the Bible you do so that commonly perceived truth is the fabric that binds together. When truth is not the bond, power moves are inevitable.

Also, while I’m talking a little about C.J. Mahaney, wanted to share this video someone did from clips of a sermon of his. Very powerful.

Speaking of C.J. Mahaney, who has an extensive past with illegal drugs, he had an interesting post today on the Michael Phelps bong picture and associated stories about it. I respect C.J.’s opinion anyway, but even more so on this issue. When it comes to pot (and worse drugs), C.J. knows what he’s talking about (see his testimony below). He knows the empty promises drugs make.

From his post:

The photograph of Phelps reminds me of myself prior to conversion, a competitive swimmer (of slightly lesser skill), a sinner (of greater degree), held captive by sin, pursuing the fleeting pleasures of this world. And sadly, in my case, pursuing sin with passion.

So what was Phelps searching for in that bong pipe? What emptiness in his soul was he trying to satisfy?

Once again we are reminded that athletic gifting, championship trophies, gold medals, and million dollar endorsement deals cannot satisfy the soul…

…It was Augustine who said that the soul is restless until it finds its rest in God. So true. Only God can satisfy the soul. Only the gospel of Jesus Christ provides forgiveness of sin, and therefore it is here in this gospel that we find rest for our restless souls.

Study the unflattering picture of Michael Phelps to be reminded of the deceitfulness of sin and the superficiality of fame and money. But also study the picture to be reminded of the message of Christ and him crucified for restless sinners like you, and me, and Michael Phelps.

Here’s a clip from one of C.J.’s sermon during which he gives his personal testimony outlining his past sin and how he came to be a Christian:

Speaking of C.J. Mahaney, who has an extensive past with illegal drugs, he had an interesting post today on the Michael Phelps bong picture and associated stories about it. I respect C.J.’s opinion anyway, but even more so on this issue. When it comes to pot (and worse drugs), C.J. knows what he’s talking about (see his testimony below). He knows the empty promises drugs make.

From his post:

The photograph of Phelps reminds me of myself prior to conversion, a competitive swimmer (of slightly lesser skill), a sinner (of greater degree), held captive by sin, pursuing the fleeting pleasures of this world. And sadly, in my case, pursuing sin with passion.

So what was Phelps searching for in that bong pipe? What emptiness in his soul was he trying to satisfy?

Once again we are reminded that athletic gifting, championship trophies, gold medals, and million dollar endorsement deals cannot satisfy the soul…

…It was Augustine who said that the soul is restless until it finds its rest in God. So true. Only God can satisfy the soul. Only the gospel of Jesus Christ provides forgiveness of sin, and therefore it is here in this gospel that we find rest for our restless souls.

Study the unflattering picture of Michael Phelps to be reminded of the deceitfulness of sin and the superficiality of fame and money. But also study the picture to be reminded of the message of Christ and him crucified for restless sinners like you, and me, and Michael Phelps.

Here’s a clip from one of C.J.’s sermon during which he gives his personal testimony outlining his past sin and how he came to be a Christian:

As part of a series of “Don’t Waste Your ______” done at Covenant Life Church, C.J. Mahaney preached a sermon entitled, “Don’t Waste Your Sports.” I had this sermon on my iPod and listened to some of it on my way into work this morning. Needless to say, I wish I would have heard a sermon like this much earlier in my life, as I have for years turned sports into one of my biggest idols, but I’m glad I heard it before my son is near the age of playing sports.

C.J. is a huge sports fan, but is able to be that in a way that glorifies God and builds godly character in him and his children. I hope by God’s grace to grow into more of this kind of person and raise children who will put the gift of sports in it’s proper place in their lives.

Below are a few clips from the sermon. You can also purchase the DVD from Sovereign Grace Ministries website for $9. This is something I want to have around to learn from and watch with my son later. Also check out Stephen Altrogge’s book, Game Day for the Glory of God. Similar ideas and a great book.

Game Day and Judgment Day

Thanking God for Sports

As part of a series of “Don’t Waste Your ______” done at Covenant Life Church, C.J. Mahaney preached a sermon entitled, “Don’t Waste Your Sports.” I had this sermon on my iPod and listened to some of it on my way into work this morning. Needless to say, I wish I would have heard a sermon like this much earlier in my life, as I have for years turned sports into one of my biggest idols, but I’m glad I heard it before my son is near the age of playing sports.

C.J. is a huge sports fan, but is able to be that in a way that glorifies God and builds godly character in him and his children. I hope by God’s grace to grow into more of this kind of person and raise children who will put the gift of sports in it’s proper place in their lives.

Below are a few clips from the sermon. You can also purchase the DVD from Sovereign Grace Ministries website for $9. This is something I want to have around to learn from and watch with my son later. Also check out Stephen Altrogge’s book, Game Day for the Glory of God. Similar ideas and a great book.

Game Day and Judgment Day

Thanking God for Sports

Got this from C.J. Mahaney’s blog today:

No unwelcome tasks become any the less unwelcome by putting them off till tomorrow. It is only when they are behind us and done, that we begin to find that there is a sweetness to be tasted afterwards, and that the remembrance of unwelcome duties unhesitatingly done is welcome and pleasant. Accomplished, they are full of blessing, and there is a smile on their faces as they leave us. Undone, they stand threatening and disturbing our tranquility, and hindering our communion with God. If there be lying before you any bit of work from which you shrink, go straight up to it, and do it at once. The only way to get rid of it is to do it.

-Alexander MacLaren (1826–1910), Scottish preacher

Got this from C.J. Mahaney’s blog today:

No unwelcome tasks become any the less unwelcome by putting them off till tomorrow. It is only when they are behind us and done, that we begin to find that there is a sweetness to be tasted afterwards, and that the remembrance of unwelcome duties unhesitatingly done is welcome and pleasant. Accomplished, they are full of blessing, and there is a smile on their faces as they leave us. Undone, they stand threatening and disturbing our tranquility, and hindering our communion with God. If there be lying before you any bit of work from which you shrink, go straight up to it, and do it at once. The only way to get rid of it is to do it.

-Alexander MacLaren (1826–1910), Scottish preacher

C.J. Mahaney wrote a great piece on his blog about Art Monk’s recent induction into the Pro Football Hall of Fame in Canton, OH. It had been a longer-than-anticipated wait for Monk to get in, and he had to watch others with similar stats and significantly less character get enshrined while he waited. So, of course, upon finally achieving H.O.F. status, he would naturally deliver a speech about vindication and finally having his accomplishments recognized, right?

Not even close.

His words:

… Getting here did not come without controversy, as I’m sure it did with some of the guys sitting behind me. But through it all, I’m here with a greater appreciation for something that not every player is able to achieve and for the people who stood up for me and spoke out on my behalf. …

What I’ve tried to convey to those who were upset about the process was that I was okay with it. But in all due respect, that as great as this honor is, it’s not what really defines who I am or the things that I’ve been able to accomplish in my life. …

And even now as a Hall of Famer, the one thing I want to make very clear is that my identity and my security is found in the Lord. And what defines me and my validation comes in having accepted his son Jesus Christ as my personal savior. And what defines me is the Word of God, and it’s the Word of God that will continue to shape and mold me into the person that I know he’s called me to be.

So I’ve learned a long time ago never to put my faith or trust in man, for man will always fail you. Man will always disappoint you. But the Word of God says that Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever. And He will never fail you.

And that is what I live by and what I stand on. Being included into this fraternity is a pretty humbling experience for me. I always grew up seeing these guys as giants and legends who make significant contributions to the game of football. And it’s pretty hard for me to believe that I’ve now been included as part of them. Growing up I was never voted the most likely to succeed. And there was never anything about me that would have given anyone the impression that I would have played in the NFL, let alone to be standing here.

There’s a scripture that I think about almost every day and I’ve come to personalize it to my life. It says: “Lord, who am I that you are mindful of me?” [Psalm 8:4]. And the Apostle Paul says, “Think of what you were when you were called. Not many were wise by human standards. Not many were influential. Not many were born of noble birth” [1 Corinthians 1:26]. And when I look at my life and how I grew up, I certainly had none of those qualities or benefits.

But I understand and I know that I’m here not by, in, and of my own strength—but it’s by the grace and the power of God upon my life, who I know gave me favor along the way, and who provided opportunity and room for me to use my gifts.

So I am very grateful to receive this honor, and I can stand here before you and say, “Hey, look at me, look at what I did.” But if I’m going to boast, I’m going to boast today in the Lord, for it’s because of him that I’m here and I give him thanks and glory and honor for all that he has done for me.

Amazing stuff.

C.J.’s take:

From my view in the cheap seats, too many pro athletes who profess Christ appear theologically ignorant, have little or no involvement in the local church, and have no pastoral oversight in their lives. Monk’s speech appears to be the fruit of good pastoring. If more professional athletes participated in churches where sound doctrine was taught, there might be more examples like Art Monk and Darrell Green…

…The quiet sports star stepped in front of thousands of fans and used the moment, not for self-congratulation, but to glorify God. Standing beside a bronze bust of himself, his speech is no celebration of human achievement, but of amazing grace. In a place built to enshrine human achievement, Monk reminded us all of human weakness.

Sunday Art Monk provided a compelling example for fathers and their children of true greatness—humility before God. I try to seize these moments as teaching moments for my soul and my son. And I am freshly provoked to provide my son with a similar example of humility.

As someone with a son on the way, that really hit home for me. I thank God for true examples of greatness-humility like Art Monk, Darrell Green, and C.J. Mahaney. I hope God blesses me with the ability to be that kind of example to my son.

Read C.J.’s whole post here.

C.J. Mahaney wrote a great piece on his blog about Art Monk’s recent induction into the Pro Football Hall of Fame in Canton, OH. It had been a longer-than-anticipated wait for Monk to get in, and he had to watch others with similar stats and significantly less character get enshrined while he waited. So, of course, upon finally achieving H.O.F. status, he would naturally deliver a speech about vindication and finally having his accomplishments recognized, right?

Not even close.

His words:

… Getting here did not come without controversy, as I’m sure it did with some of the guys sitting behind me. But through it all, I’m here with a greater appreciation for something that not every player is able to achieve and for the people who stood up for me and spoke out on my behalf. …

What I’ve tried to convey to those who were upset about the process was that I was okay with it. But in all due respect, that as great as this honor is, it’s not what really defines who I am or the things that I’ve been able to accomplish in my life. …

And even now as a Hall of Famer, the one thing I want to make very clear is that my identity and my security is found in the Lord. And what defines me and my validation comes in having accepted his son Jesus Christ as my personal savior. And what defines me is the Word of God, and it’s the Word of God that will continue to shape and mold me into the person that I know he’s called me to be.

So I’ve learned a long time ago never to put my faith or trust in man, for man will always fail you. Man will always disappoint you. But the Word of God says that Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever. And He will never fail you.

And that is what I live by and what I stand on. Being included into this fraternity is a pretty humbling experience for me. I always grew up seeing these guys as giants and legends who make significant contributions to the game of football. And it’s pretty hard for me to believe that I’ve now been included as part of them. Growing up I was never voted the most likely to succeed. And there was never anything about me that would have given anyone the impression that I would have played in the NFL, let alone to be standing here.

There’s a scripture that I think about almost every day and I’ve come to personalize it to my life. It says: “Lord, who am I that you are mindful of me?” [Psalm 8:4]. And the Apostle Paul says, “Think of what you were when you were called. Not many were wise by human standards. Not many were influential. Not many were born of noble birth” [1 Corinthians 1:26]. And when I look at my life and how I grew up, I certainly had none of those qualities or benefits.

But I understand and I know that I’m here not by, in, and of my own strength—but it’s by the grace and the power of God upon my life, who I know gave me favor along the way, and who provided opportunity and room for me to use my gifts.

So I am very grateful to receive this honor, and I can stand here before you and say, “Hey, look at me, look at what I did.” But if I’m going to boast, I’m going to boast today in the Lord, for it’s because of him that I’m here and I give him thanks and glory and honor for all that he has done for me.

Amazing stuff.

C.J.’s take:

From my view in the cheap seats, too many pro athletes who profess Christ appear theologically ignorant, have little or no involvement in the local church, and have no pastoral oversight in their lives. Monk’s speech appears to be the fruit of good pastoring. If more professional athletes participated in churches where sound doctrine was taught, there might be more examples like Art Monk and Darrell Green…

…The quiet sports star stepped in front of thousands of fans and used the moment, not for self-congratulation, but to glorify God. Standing beside a bronze bust of himself, his speech is no celebration of human achievement, but of amazing grace. In a place built to enshrine human achievement, Monk reminded us all of human weakness.

Sunday Art Monk provided a compelling example for fathers and their children of true greatness—humility before God. I try to seize these moments as teaching moments for my soul and my son. And I am freshly provoked to provide my son with a similar example of humility.

As someone with a son on the way, that really hit home for me. I thank God for true examples of greatness-humility like Art Monk, Darrell Green, and C.J. Mahaney. I hope God blesses me with the ability to be that kind of example to my son.

Read C.J.’s whole post here.

“God’s Word and Our Feelings”

(Sidenote: Josh Harris introduced C.J. Mahaney as someone he met 12 years ago, while he was working on a book “that would ruin many of your lives.” I Kissed Dating Goodbye…Considering this was directly towards almost entirely college kids and mid-20′s people, I thought the comment was hysterical.)

C.J. Mahaney preached tonight on Psalm 42. The Psalm deals with a man struggling with despair and a “downcast soul.” He feels an apparent absence of God and is enduring trials of some kind that is only exacerbating his turmoil. The Psalm, C.J. pointed out, is essentially the internal, unending conversation the Psalmist is having with himself.

C.J. made the distinction between the Troubled Soul and the Hopeful Soul. For much of the Psalm, the writer is Troubled, but then he begins to speak to himself instead of listening to himself. This is how we can move to the Hopeful Soul: by talking truth to ourselves. This requires perseverance (the Psalmist had to do it multiple times), and it must depend on God for the transformation.

But what exactly do you say to yourself? C.J. points out the Psalmist’s example is a good one: “Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.”

He essentially rebukes his soul and commands it to hope in God and know God’s promises. C.J. quoted Spurgeon about using God’s promises, saying we should “draw the sword from its sheath and use it with holy violence.” Also, the Psalmist will praise Him again. C.J. – “Troubled Souls become Hopeful Souls as we sing Truth to our souls.”

Finally, C.J. closed by making an amazing point: “The Psalmist felt forsaken by God. The Savior was forsaken.” Not only does Psalm 42 give us an example of what we should do when we feel forsaken, it shows us something that Christ actually experienced. Powerful thought.

We closed the night after this emotional talk by having the entire conference sing “It Is Well With My Soul” a cappella. One of the most moving experiences ever for me. I don’t believe I’ve ever sang that loud in my life or felt the Spirit more closely. Truly humbling and amazing.

Again, these are just my thoughts about the talks. For more in-depth summaries of the different talks and much better analysis, be sure to check out Justin Buzzard’s live-blog of the conference. He’s much better at this than me, and I’ve been encouraged by reading his posts. Also, you can get audio of all the talks very soon after they’re done there.

“God’s Word and Our Feelings”

(Sidenote: Josh Harris introduced C.J. Mahaney as someone he met 12 years ago, while he was working on a book “that would ruin many of your lives.” I Kissed Dating Goodbye…Considering this was directly towards almost entirely college kids and mid-20′s people, I thought the comment was hysterical.)

C.J. Mahaney preached tonight on Psalm 42. The Psalm deals with a man struggling with despair and a “downcast soul.” He feels an apparent absence of God and is enduring trials of some kind that is only exacerbating his turmoil. The Psalm, C.J. pointed out, is essentially the internal, unending conversation the Psalmist is having with himself.

C.J. made the distinction between the Troubled Soul and the Hopeful Soul. For much of the Psalm, the writer is Troubled, but then he begins to speak to himself instead of listening to himself. This is how we can move to the Hopeful Soul: by talking truth to ourselves. This requires perseverance (the Psalmist had to do it multiple times), and it must depend on God for the transformation.

But what exactly do you say to yourself? C.J. points out the Psalmist’s example is a good one: “Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.”

He essentially rebukes his soul and commands it to hope in God and know God’s promises. C.J. quoted Spurgeon about using God’s promises, saying we should “draw the sword from its sheath and use it with holy violence.” Also, the Psalmist will praise Him again. C.J. – “Troubled Souls become Hopeful Souls as we sing Truth to our souls.”

Finally, C.J. closed by making an amazing point: “The Psalmist felt forsaken by God. The Savior was forsaken.” Not only does Psalm 42 give us an example of what we should do when we feel forsaken, it shows us something that Christ actually experienced. Powerful thought.

We closed the night after this emotional talk by having the entire conference sing “It Is Well With My Soul” a cappella. One of the most moving experiences ever for me. I don’t believe I’ve ever sang that loud in my life or felt the Spirit more closely. Truly humbling and amazing.

Again, these are just my thoughts about the talks. For more in-depth summaries of the different talks and much better analysis, be sure to check out Justin Buzzard’s live-blog of the conference. He’s much better at this than me, and I’ve been encouraged by reading his posts. Also, you can get audio of all the talks very soon after they’re done there.

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